4. Actions and people are two different parts that need to be separated from each other. Critical folks forget to filter these two which leads to even more issues. Be fair in your approach and do not judge people for what they do wrong. Always remember to praise them for what they do right. Assumptions that you make about others can be wrong. Evaluate the situation and see how you can adjust to you. Separate the action from the person who was involved into it and you will soon find a solution.