3. We’re blaming our partner although we also were there
The best way to solve problems made in the past is by starting analyze your own actions. How right were you when you were in that relationship? Did you do everything the right way? No one is perfect. This rule applies to you as well. If you feel you did something wrong, then try never to repeat the same mistakes. If you did everything right, then there is nothing to blame you for. Relax and move on living your life.