4. We follow advice given by people who don’t know any more than you do
Do not become a blind person who is led by another blind person. If you ask for advice, make sure that the person you are asking for help is smarter than you and has much more experience than you do. Why would you listen to someone who is as inexperienced as you? You need an objective person who will explain what happened and what made you feel the way you’re feeling at the moment. Your friends will probably feel sorry for you. But is compassion enough to solve issues? We doubt.