You do not want to deal with situations where conflicts may occur
There is no need to avoid situations that may cause or involve conflicts. Here the wisest thing you can do is to learn to deal with difficulties. You are a grown-up person and it’s time you learned to deal with serious issues. Be reasonable and do not run away if you feel uncomfortable. Escape is no solution at all. Develop skills that will help you feel more self-confident and assured. Be closely engaged with other people. Participate in various events, contests and parties. Lead an active social life and enjoy every moment of it.

You forget what you ate or did a couple of hours ago
If a person appreciates his present moment, he will always remember what happened an hour ago. He will always remember what he ate or did. If you tend to forget such things, it means you need to pay more attention to how you perceive the importance of your present life. As a matter of fact, we forget meaningless stuff only. Is your present really meaningless and useless? We are sure that it is worth remembering! Try to enjoy every second of what is happening with you and around you at present.