I would never force my lifestyle on anybody whatsoever. To stay unmarried is my choice only. Feel free to make your own decision.
1. Wouldn’t be better to be sure that your partner is officially committed to you? Who says he isn’t? I met my current partner ten years ago. Five years later we started to live together. Now we’ve got a common life and home. Neither of us is obsessed with the idea. Yet we are completely committed to each other. How about having a talk about your partner’s commitment to you? Come on, no need to frown! I didn’t mean to sound rude.
2. Marriage provides you with a feeling of safety and security. Go ahead then and tie the knot! Some couples follow traditions and do find social aspect quite an important part of even their private lives. I feel far more comfortable knowing that my man is by my side out of his free will. No official authority could ever make him stay with me against his will. Then what’s the point in going to the City Hall to sign the papers?