The man you are dating might not be the person you want in your life. Be realistic and see whether the man is worth your precious time and attention. Is he as sincere as you? Do not invest you time, feelings and emotions into someone who is not ready to do the same for you.

Here are a few reasons why you might turn your passion into friendship:

1. It’s easy for him to reach you, but it is too difficult for you to reach him. Women want to believe that the men they are dating are focused on them only. Do not lie to yourself and see how easy it is for you to reach your beloved. If your phone calls are never returned, then think of the reasons why this might be happening. Being clingy is humiliating for both, but if you really need the person and whenever you contact him you receive no response, then there is definitely some sort of problem. Chasing is not your job. You are a woman and you are not supposed to woo men to get their attention. Respect yourself and do not let anyone think that you are more interested in them than they are interested in you. Your time is more valuable than someone who does not care about you.

2. Your friend with benefits has a partner. Finding out that the man has someone else in his life is painful. If he has a girlfriend, then how serious is he about you? Do not expect any serious proposal from him if he has a partner. If he really loved you, he would have never been in search for anyone else. Who are you for him if he has another girl he is dating? You might be feeling committed to him and your relationship, but you need to know that your man is also committed. No one has the right to make you their victim. Do not let him cheat on you. Actually, he is cheating both you and the other woman he is with. That means you are in love with an absolutely dishonest individual. Leave him.