3. He often breaks your stuff and is not careful with your items.

If you are not respected, then do not expect your property to be respected, either. If your man is not careful with your things and even breaks the stuff around, it means he does not feel you deserve to be around him. Damaging someone else’s property is one of the ways of telling them you do not like them.

4. He provokes fights with you over absolutely meaningless matters.

Analyze the situation. Look into it deeper and you will probably realize that by provoking fights over meaningless stuff is his way of hiding something more serious. He might simply not be willing or ready to discuss the real issues that make him feel angry and frustrated. Leave him if he says he doesn’t want to resolve the problem in a more productive way.