It is not always easy to connect with people. Let’s see what reasons there are and whether there are ways to improve this situation. We know that once you start changing yourself, you’ll instantly see that you are surrounded by a different type of people.

If you need more contact with the world, do the following:

1. Be as genuine as possible

Being secretive is fine is you are on a mission as a spy. If not, then relax and let people see the real you. Do not pretend what or who you are not. Reserved people can hardly succeed in finding friends since they keep being a closed book for people around them. No one wants to force themselves on you. So do not hope others to invest their time and effort in trying to find out more about you. Be the first to open up and see what a wonderful personality you have.

2. Exchange a means to connect

Many years ago people might have had trouble connecting with each other since the number of means that they could have used was limited. Some 50 years ago people did not have cell phones, messengers or e-mail addresses. The only ways to communicate were either by writing letter by hand or visiting them at their place. Keep in touch with people and share your contact details with those you are interested in. You need to be reachable and approachable for the society. Do not hide and other people will find you.