Broken hearts make do not stop us from falling in love with the wrong people. We keep making the same mistakes over and over again.

Why does it happen and are there any ways to avoid being hurt in a relationship? Let’s see the reasons why we feel pain after breakups.

1. We think that we’ll feel fine as time passes

Wounds are said to heal as days pass. But what if you get those wounds all life long and feel as if your entire life is all about trying to heal your wounds? We watch movies, take advice from friends and read books written by bright minds. We are taught how to live our lives and treat others. However, all this stuff hardly help us avoid painful experience. The answer is in you. Analyze the situation, learn from your own mistakes and try not to repeat them.

2. We do not want to change our thinking

Memories are not always useful. If you are one of the people who live in the past, it will be very difficult to live your current live the right way. We know that there is no present or future without the past, but if your past memories are full of negative feelings and emotions, you will probably have an unpleasant present and future. Learn to forget and forgive people who hurt you. We cannot change the past. More than that, we cannot change the people who presently surround us. Start living your present and leave the past behind.