5. “But I never stopped loving you.”

You are a big girl. Do not believe in all those cheap fairy tales and empty promises. He never stopped loving you while being with someone else? Sounds retarded. How is it possible? He loved you all along. Fine. Then what did you feel for those he slept with behind your back? Was it also love? True love is about trust, respect and tight bonds. You connect to the person you’re with both spiritually and emotionally. Wasting yourself on others is no option if you are a married person.

How do you respond? “Who would ever believe that it’s possible to love someone with all your heart while having sex with another person? Betrayal and love do not agree. This kind of love makes no sense. It does not make me feel safe and secure.”

6. “I would try to apologize, but you’re never going to forgive me.”

Now who is to be blamed? Of course that’s not him. You’re the one who is guilty. Why? Because you’re the one who isn’t going to forgive. Smart, isn’t it? Cheaters will always try to make you believe that you overreact. The fact is that you are not guilty at all. Do not even let cheaters discuss how misunderstanding you are. And no, your heart is full of love, but you are not as stupid as to waste it on someone who does not deserve it.

How do you respond? “What makes you believe you are worth being forgiven?”