The article below will teach you to talk to people who have just recently become parents. There are a few phrases to avoid when talking to them.

Some of the phrases are annoying while others are simply impolite. Avoid them if you do not want to offend a new parent.

1. “Are you getting enough sleep?”
What is the point in asking this question? You know the answer already. A new parent never gets enough sleep and rest. Babies need attention and care 24/7. You cannot leave them on their own even for a second. You change the diapers, feed the child, bathe and clean him plus do a ton of other things around the house. A parent of a newborn can hardly have a rest even in the night. It is inevitable unless the parents have other family members who do not mind helping to take care of the baby.

2. “Let me know if I can be of any help to you.”
This is rather a meaningless phrase, especially if you are not a member of the family. It is unlikely that the new parents would ask you for help and assistance. Instead of this useless phrase you can ask for permission to do the shopping, cleaning, gardening, maybe cooking or whatever you are good at. Pick up the kids from school or play with them. Be active and stop waiting for the parents to ask you for help. Simply make the first step. There are too few new parents who would not need another couple of hands.