Love is hard to explain. We fall in love with someone and hardly ever try to explain why we found this or that person so attractive and special. People often choose the wrong type of partners. They suffer afterwards. Then they fall apart and leave each other.
After some time they find a new love, but the previous story repeats itself and you fall apart again since you realize that your current partner is not too different from the one you left. In order to avoid further disappointment, we suggest you should date a different type of people. Learn from your own mistakes and do not repeat them in the future.
Red Flags
Your very first opinion about the person is the right opinion. Red flags must never be ignored. Listen to your intuition. Listen to your heart, too. Analyze your date’s behavior. Pay attention to his words and manners. Some men call their ex-partners ‘crazy’ or other offensive names. If they call the women they once loved and were in a relationship with ugly names, there is no doubt they will talk about you the same way behind your back when you fall apart.
You Focus on a Type
The only way to make a great change is by starting to choose an absolutely different or the opposite type of men. Dating does not have to lead to marriage. Just have a few dates with totally different sorts of men and see if you get along with any of them. If you keep choosing the same type, you will never find the right partner and will never be happy in your relationship.