You Trust Charm and Ignore Character
You are a grown-up person. Adults must be wiser than teenagers who fall in love with the person’s charm rather than his or her character. You are now mature enough to start planning your future life. Maybe you are in search of a life partner. What does your soul mate must be like? Make a list of qualities you need in your future spouse and see whether your current date meets your requirements. If your expectations are not met, then you will be disappointed again. Save your time and do not try to change the person – simply find someone who is already right for you.
Standards and Demands
Look through your checklist. The Cinderella syndrome is typical of teenage girls. If you are no longer a kid, you should have a realistic approach. Your expectations and requirements should be realistic, too. If you are looking for your perfect partner who has no flaws at all, you will stay single forever. No one is perfect. Neither are you. Allow other people have some minor minuses. Be prepared to accept your future partner’s likes and dislikes, preferences and habits. You might think that going to the cinema and then having a meal in the nearest pizzeria every Friday night is too boring. But if that’s what makes your man happy, do not overreact and allow him to enjoy his time.