You Intend to Change Him
Value your time and do not waste it on someone who is not right for you. Either put up with the idea that your partner will always be and behave the way he is now or leave him before you have invested years in a relationship with a man who cannot and does not want to change. You are not the first woman who has met almost a perfect match except for a few minor flaws. You are sure that you know how to fix those flaws and make your guy impeccable, but reality is different. Your man is not a dog – you cannot train him.

Finding in the Same Place
One partner who is just right for you is enough. This is what you are looking for. You do not need to pretend to attract many guys. If you are trying to seem much better than you really are, you won’t allow people find out who and what you are deep inside. Your true self can also seem attractive to someone. Let people see the real you and stop acting and wearing a mask. Change tactics for a while and try to look for your soul mate in a different place. Instead of your favorite bar, restaurant, club or cafeteria you can attend a gallery, exhibition or museum where you can start a conversation with someone you like. Try online dating if you have never done that before.