Life goes on. Even if you think that you will not survive after your breakup or divorce, life is larger than your previous relationship. You are wrong if you think that you cannot love anyone after you have been once left or betrayed.
You are strong enough to cope with it. Here are 6 steps that will help you recover after one of the worst experiences:
1. Have fun while you can!
Being single is fun. Now you have more time to concentrate on your goals and dreams. This is when you can take better care of yourself without being considered to be selfish. You have more spare time to do what you enjoy doing. Spend more time with people you like. Invite your friends over or visit your family. Start learning a new language. Read interesting books, attend exhibitions, art galleries and museums. Do sports or anything else to keep you active and involved.
2. Live today
Having a good memory is a good thing, but only if it does not ruin your present or interfere with your future. All those mistakes that you made a few months or years ago should be analyzed, but correcting them is impossible. The best solution is to let your past be behind. Forget and forgive yourself and others what was done wrong. Stay positive.