Do not hesitate to be the first to message the guy. You will never sound desperate, impolite or clingy if you send one of the ideas provided below. Be original and, instead of saying ‘hi’, send him something more special.
A good message will help you start a conversation.
Sharing a Meme
Offensive memes are out of the question. There are much better options so share something funny or sweet with the guy you feel attracted to. It’s a friendly step forward. The funnier and cuter the meme is, the greater chances that the man will react to it and send you some sort of reply.
Common Interests
If the guy you are interested in uses social media, you should definitely visit his account and read what he posts on his profile. Look through the list of his latest interests and hobbies and see what greatest passions he has. Leave a comment asking him to tell more about the subject. You can ask for advice or give your own opinion.