3. His fitness goals, looks and image

The modern fashion industry makes us believe that we look terrible. Designers, stylists and fitness gurus are trying to do all possible to make us buy the stuff that would help us look better. Your man may also be influenced by commercials and advertisements. Ask your man if he has fitness goals. Learn about his image and what he is ready to do to achieve it. Is he planning to go to the gym, start eating healthy and purchase a new outfit? 

4. What you say sound boring to him

Do you think that he finds your stories too boring to listen to? He may be pretending, after all. What if your man is listening to you simply because he does not want to be rude and impolite by asking you to shut up? You can check if he is interested in what you tell him by asking questions during your story. If he is not attentive, he won’t be able to answer them.