Do not lie to yourself and admit the truth. Reality might be quite different from what you’d like it to be.

Your plans for the weekends are absolutely different
If your boyfriend makes his own weekend plans and does not inform you about the things he is going to do, then you are probably in the wrong type of relationship. You might be friends but definitely not close partners. Partnership is all about sharing your life with the other person, discussing things and doing as many things together as possible. The same rule applies to you. How willing are you to let your partner join you next weekend? And what are the main reasons why you do not enjoy weekends spent together?

You hardly ever discuss issues and solve problems
You almost never have discussions. Each lives his own life and solves his own problems. Your partner seldom asks you to tell him more about your daily routine and worries. He is too busy thinking about his routine. You understand that this is not the way it is supposed to be if you are in a relationship with someone. Close people share everything with each other, concerns and problems included.