You never know how successful and lasting your relationship will be. Sometimes even wonderful couples break up. The period after you part with your significant one can be really painful.

1. Acceptance
Unless you accept it’s all over will you not be able to start your new life. Quit mourning and complaining. Do not blame yourself or your ex-partner for what has happened. Breakups do happen very often and you are not the only person who is going through this sort of unpleasant experience. The end of your current relationship may mean that you are about to enter a new stage of your life full of happiness and joy. Admit that you are strong enough to cope with this sort of unpleasant situation.

2. Refrain from pity and self-blame
This advice is easy to give but no easy to follow. When a breakup happens, we tend to analyze what it is that made us part from each other. Pity is not the right emotion in this case. Self-blame is also destructive. All the negative emotions and feelings lead nowhere. They ruin your personality and do not help to restore. Do not blame yourself for what has happened. Even the best women are betrayed by their partners, boyfriends and husbands. The problem might be in your ex who was not good enough to stay with you. Men do not like to be around ladies who are more educated, more intelligent or richer than them. They are not ready to compete and usually leave such girls.