You never know what kind of men may be met online. We do not see them first and the only way to find out more about them is by corresponding to them. It’s fine to talk to someone who is just the opposite of what you need – such people help you understand your goals better.
You are a personality. You are an individual with something that makes you stand out from the crowd. You may be proud of your looks, career, achievements in various spheres of life and intellect. Let people know how cool you are.